As a relationship coach, I am passionate when it comes to talking about love and relationships.
I thought I would like to talk to you about long distant relationships today. As I am Asian who live in Australia, I get a lots of questions from women.
What I think about long distant relationships, how it works and how to maintain a long distant relationship how to have a deep connection, even though you are far from each other.
Well, as a lot people agree, long distant relationships can be tough because you can’t hug and kiss each other physically and you can’t do things together such as go to a movie together ect…
So before I answer your question, I would like to share with you that a lot of my friends have had positive long distant success with their long distant relationship, and whom are now married and have children. Some of them have been married for 10 years now.
If you are now in a long distant relationship, you may sometimes find yourself feeling a little worried, it might be too much for you or for whichever reasons, you are not able to obtain your relationship’s full potential.
Here are 5 steps to help maintain your LDR.
Step 1. Communication.
Make sure that every day you have time to communicate with each other. Either via messaging or calling him. Taking a little time to talk with each other is a great way to build your trust and know you both are making an effort for your relationship.
Step 2. Connection.
A few passionate words and a smile on your face in the morning (by texts or Skype) can make him feel that you are an angel who has come from heaven! It will make his entire day great, and that way he can grow his attraction and feelings for you, even though you are far from each other.
Step 3. Surprises.
Surprise him when you talk on skype or face time. For example have a romantic dinner together on skype, light some candles with music, and have some flowers in your room, This will make him think of what it will be like when you both are actually together at a romantic dinner. Tell him how nice and happy you are with the dinner that you have had together, he will imagine all night long about the surprised you gave him.
Step 4. Compliment.
As much we want someone to compliment us, men also wanted to be complimented by you.
So, let’s say he had a hair cut or is wearing new clothes, compliment him by saying “have you just had your hair cut? It’s great, you look good, (Sexy)”. Without him realising, you have lit up his ego, and he feels good and content.
Step 5. Trust.
Trust him, trust your relationship, and know that you both have already created meaning and purpose in your relationship.
Hope this information will help your LDR challenges.
Much love and blessing
Milly