•  Are you a single women who feel that all the good partners are taken?
• Are you a smart, attractive, and independent women, but face a lot of challenges to create a successful relationship?
• Have you been single for a long time and wanting to go dating again, but feeling confused on where to start?
• Do you want to break free from always attracting the same type of relationships over and over again?
• Are you a single mother that fears or worries that great partners might not want to date you?
• Are you a busy person with your work, family, kids? Wanting to release the stress and anger, and feel more connected, excited and happy?

 

6 Tips to make your man fall in love

 

Tip#1: Don’t give a man more than he gives you

“A man is actually turned off when he gets more from you than he gives.”

Love, and inspiring a man to fall in love with you forever, is all about you being able to receive love.

Most of us only know how to give. We give for lots of reasons – because we’re taught that’s the way to get to a man’s heart (it isn’t) because we see other women do it, and because deep down, it feels uncomfortable and scary to be vulnerable enough to really get love.

A man is actually turned off when he gets more from you than he gives. When you shower him with affection, attention, dinners, gifts, and always go out of your way to drive to his place, it makes him think of you as a mother or a friend instead of inspiring his emotional desire for you.

Tip #2: Don’t give away exclusivity if he hasn’t yet committed

We become totally, emotionally invested in a man when we’re exclusive with him because he has all our time and attention. There’s no way we can stop wondering about where the relationship is going. But the more we think about it and talk about it, the more we push a man away.

When you can think of it in these terms, it’s easier to keep your options open and keep your personal power in the relationship. Rather than talking about the relationship or threatening him with ultimatums, you can continue to keep your options open by dating other men. This way, you keep your class, your power, your boundaries, and he has to work to get you!

Tip#3: Don’t give him gifts, make him dinner or pay for dates

Yes, this sounds unfair, and yet, who pays is often the difference in his mind between friends hanging out together and a “date.”

If a man complains about paying for everything, let him know you don’t care what you do, you feel great being with him, and you don’t want to pay. Walking, hanging out in bookstores, having a picnic in a park can all be fun, romantic ways to get close to a man.

(And forget about cooking dinner or trying to make dating “reciprocal.” A bowl of popcorn and something to drink is fine.)

When you give a man gifts, give him all your attention and energy, and give MORE than you receive, you’re OVERFUNCTIONING.

Over functioning is doing more than your fair share and stepping up to rescue a man because you know you can do a better job. It’s arriving from your masculine energy. It feels aggressive and forward to a man. And it’s totally unattractive to him.

 

Tip#4: Stop analyzing and obsessing

Women believe the lie that men fear displays of emotion. Actually, what men can’t stand is “drama,” but they fall to their knees in adoration for a woman who can feel something and communicate it in a non-judgmental, non-critical and vulnerable way.

Allow yourself to feel every emotion, even if it’s not interesting or pleasant. When you stop analyzing why and just feel, you’ll feel more fully yourself, more alive, and therefore you’ll automatically be more attractive to every man.

Tip#5: Get out of your head and into your feelings

What are your conversations with a man like?

If you’re in your head, you are probably expressing a lot of opinions and facts about things. That’s not very romantic. Opinions are good for an occasional lively discussion with friends, but they don’t do anything to inspire him to love you.

Instead, notice how you feel about things throughout your day. Whenever you catch yourself lost in your thoughts, to-do lists or opinions, take yourself back to how you feel in the moment.

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Tip#6: Communicate using the phrase “I feel,” not “I think…”

Speak from your feelings. Start sentences with “I feel” instead of “I think.” This may seem odd at first. You may be afraid that if you do this a man will think you’re silly or too emotional or that you’ll scare him off. Actually, the exact opposite is true.

The more you’re able to share your emotions in a man’s presence without going into drama and telling him what’s wrong with him, the closer he’s going to want to get to you.

The best way to help a man connect to his tender, emotional side is by knowing how you feel and being able to clearly and honestly communicate it to him.

When you start connecting with his heart this way, he’ll be more affectionate and loving with you. He may even start sharing what he feels with you.

 

I Will Do Anything To Make You Happy

 

Relationships are about give and take. You give a little, you get a little; you put your heart and soul into something that’s what you expect to get back. Most women want doting lovers, lovers who only think, sleep, eat, breath with them in their thoughts and minds. But getting men to that stage can be a little tricky.

The idea of a man paying you all his attention, allowing your decisions to prevail his is every woman’s dream. So what if you could actually make your man focus on nothing around him but you?

Give a man his space. That’s what men always need, space. They need time to think, to do their little things and its essential that we don’t crowd them when they’re taking their time watching TV, or taking a little nap, or hanging out with their friends some Friday nights. Once more the idea is to give them their space so they miss you more, so they think about you more, so they know that you weren’t forcing them to hang out with your or making them miss boys night every week. Guys need their guys, they need to go out and hang out at a sports bar or just sit somewhere with pizza and drink beer and just be a guy.

Make them do the relationship things, go out with them, take some adventure ride on something that they want to indulge in, do the romantic dinner dates but make sure that’s not all their doing. Find a life for yourself besides him so he appreciates and values your existence in his life and doesn’t just think of you as a stalker. Because he will be agitated if all you and her are doing the relationship thing he will get a little aloofer and bored. Keep yourself happy and then keep him happy but never nag or attach yourself to him incoherently.

Ladies, this is what will make your man fall in love with you more, when you let him be himself even while creating and progressing in your relationship. Do little things for him that he might appreciate, compliment him and let him know that he did a great job ( whatever it might be) , or get him tickets to a game he loves or even just set up a guy’s night with his friends where he can have all the fun and you disappear inside.

Doing all this creating a balance in the relationship will make him say the most unimaginable thing to you; “I will do anything to make you happy”. Men will do whatever it takes to keep you with them as long as you let them be free to do what they please. Men will listen to your opinions if you present your ideas to them with a calm demeanor and give them time to process things. Men aren’t wired like women processing and thinking multiple things simultaneously, giving them time will actually help your cause and allow them to agree to whatever you ask them too.

The idea of a man agreeing to whatever you say and accepting your choices as his happiness is a scarce happening but there are couples who have managed to create that love and balance between them where they have found common goals and made men fall in love with their women more and more. Thus allowing their women happier lives and keeping their relationships healthy.

 

5 Steps To Maintain Your Long distance Relationship

 

As a relationship coach, I am passionate when it comes to talking about love and relationships.

I thought I would like to talk to you about long distant relationships today. As I am Asian who live in Australia, I get a lots of questions from women.

What I think about long distant relationships, how it works and how to maintain a long distant relationship how to have a deep connection, even though you are far from each other.

Well, as a lot people agree, long distant relationships can be tough because you can’t hug and kiss each other physically and you can’t do things together such as go to a movie together ect…

So before I answer your question, I would like to share with you that a lot of my friends have had positive long distant success with their long distant relationship, and whom are now married and have children. Some of them have been married for 10 years now.

If you are now in a long distant relationship, you may sometimes find yourself feeling a little worried, it might be too much for you or for whichever reasons, you are not able to obtain your relationship’s full potential.

Here are 5 steps to help maintain your LDR.

Step 1. Communication.

Make sure that every day you have time to communicate with each other. Either via messaging or calling him. Taking a little time to talk with each other is a great way to build your trust and know you both are making an effort for your relationship.

Step 2. Connection.

A few passionate words and a smile on your face in the morning (by texts or Skype)  can make him feel that you are an angel who has come from heaven! It will make his entire day great, and that way he can grow his attraction and feelings for you, even though you are far from each other.

Step 3. Surprises.

Surprise him when you talk on skype or face time. For example have a romantic dinner together on skype, light some candles with music, and have some flowers in your room, This will make him think of what it will be like when you both are actually together at a romantic dinner. Tell him how nice and happy you are with the dinner that you have had together, he will imagine all night long about the surprised you gave him.

Step 4. Compliment.

As much we want someone to compliment us, men also wanted to be complimented by you.

So, let’s say he had a hair cut or is wearing new clothes, compliment him by saying “have you just had your hair cut? It’s great, you look good, (Sexy)”. Without him realising, you have lit up his ego, and he feels good and content.

Step 5. Trust.

Trust him, trust your relationship, and know that you both have already created meaning and purpose in your relationship.

Hope this information will help your LDR challenges.

Much love and blessing

Milly

 

Milly Maharani Pranayama Healing & Relationship Coaching

Hi, I am Milly Maharani, and if you feel any of the relationship challenges mentioned above, I want you to know that I am here to help you.

It doesn’t matter if you live nearby, or far away, as I can help you through my online coaching methods.

Here is what you can expect working with me:

• If you feel like you are turning in circles, and your relationship(s) don’t work, I will help you to identify your relationship patterns, so you can make the changes you need, or want, and develop a lasting happiness relationship.
• We all struggle with limiting beliefs, but to change them we first need to know what limiting beliefs are getting in our way to achieve the dreams we hold for ourselves. Through Pranayama Healing  and LOA techniques I will help you to identify and overcome the limiting beliefs that are holding you back so you can finally realise the life that is waiting for you.
• Together we will create a clear vision and plan to attract and keep the kind of partner you desire. This will be your vision and your plan, perfectly matched to the deeper desires that reside within you. I will be your coach and facilitator to awaken this vision and power within you.

My coaching together with the techniques I use from the Pranayama Healing methods and the Law of Attraction techniques, will help you let go of stress, anger, painful feelings, and body unbalance, and put you in the right frame of mind to become a magnet to attract that what you seek.

Please feel free to contact me through the email form above, or by calling me for more information on how we can work together.

I’m looking forward to be your coach.